I wonder. What do you guys talk about with your parents? Pelik. I think i have this abnormal relationship lah. We see each other every hour of the day but nope no talking. I'm starting to think that parents who work 9-5 everyday are closer to their kids compare to me and my parents who doesn't really have a job. If they do have something to do , it'll be just for half an hour or so and i always tag along.
Tapiiii we don't talk. Sedih x. I don't even know my dad sold of his car till 2 days later. And the fact he sold another car and ALREADY bought new one. I didn't even know that he's planning another golf trip and i'll be going as well and i really do wonder when or HOW he is going to break it down to me.
We take a drive everyday, but in total silence. Same je mama papa pun. Many many times we went to Lembah Beringin and back without saying a single word. Normal ke?
Don't get me wrong, i do try to make conversations with them. At least it's in my head tp selalu takut nk let it out. Why? Haha. Scared of their reactions kot. I don't know, why is it that everything that i want to say must involves money? Same ke dengan sumeorg? I might wanna say, heyy! that watch is nice. What they'll interpret is, hehhhhh tirah nk la tuu. Or they'll ask, what's up? What i want to answer is my laptop lembab. my phone takleh tekan # key. Then they'll think i'm not grateful with i have and i want a new one. I do want a new one tp xnak la drg ingt im not grateful. Am i? So it's best if i say, oh ok je. xde pape pun. Less complicated kan. Even like the simple things, van xde minyak, touch n go habis kredit, susu habis, lapar lah. Semua involves money kann?? Segan lah nak cakap pape.
So really, mcm mane nk bonding with the parents ni. Nak jugak say something that is not a complain, demand, whines and seangkatan dengan nya.
why not try to talk bout ur friends?
ReplyDeletei know that's what i do...or maybe ur future plans...or u could even try talking bout the isu semasa...
my parents x kenal my friends. -.- ok la name mcm aliea, amrina, lee tu familiar lah. and fatiah because she turned out to be realted. haha. i can't talk about my school sgt sbb my mum mcm ade this something against langkawi, talk about pc die suke lah. they'd never even been to my school for the record.
ReplyDeletefuture plans, that something that involves money jugak kan? heh. like this plan im having of nk start over my piano lessons. they know, but im scared of pushing. and my future plan in studying, dah penah dah bercerita. haha.
yeah maybe i should start talking about isu semasa more kan.
thanks afiqah!
alalaa. tell them u love them and how much u want to be closer with them. jujur kan lagi best? :)
ReplyDeletehrmm.no idea.but hey,its not abnormal.i mean its not the way it suppose to be but u r not alone.rmai je.even my parents pn:')
ReplyDeleteatyn :) hihi nanti i menangis and emotional.
ReplyDeleteyayy schafi atleast i know im not alone! hee. maybe it's just a phase. 18 years phse. i'm hoping by staying at home for another 2 years ni will give us a chance to create a bond. heh.
Laaa,babe.Kadang2,its us yang kene make the efforts of being rapat with them,parents can see when u want that closeness,insyaAllah,they'll realise.They are old people,and emo skit kan,maybe they think u guys need space,dont like being drilled of questions everyday ke??Why not u say once in a while,hey,lets go out as a family?Or go into their room and ask wat they're up to,in the car tu kan,u just say anything random la,like look at that car,pa??Or sedap kan lagu nie,ma?They're parents kan,theyll sense u want that closeness nyer.Dont worry,everything will be fine,k,babe??They never will stop loving u and supporting u even if they're like that,babe,aite??=) i love u!I miss u!=)
ReplyDelete:D:D maybe they're just like that can. yeahhh thanks killa! i love you and i miss you too!
ReplyDeletehaha. :D
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